Polyamory - how does it compare to swinging?
Poly's and swingers - the same?
These are two questions that we have often been asked and
felt we needed to explain the situation to users of the site. The two
lifestyles are totally different and are at total conflict with each
other. Whilst this site is a swingers site and the ads system is based
upon that principal it may be, however, that those enjoying or seeking a
Polymory lifestyle can find possible partners in the system.
Polyamory is described in the Websters Dictionary as "participation
in multiple and simultaneous loving or sexual relationships". Poly's
are those following that lifestyle. By breaking down the word, it's
meaning becomes just as clear "Poly [many] amor [love] y"
Polyamory can be described as a lifestyle that involves an
open relationship with more than one partner where the core to the relationship
is love and emotion.
Swinging on the other hand is about "No Strings" or
"Recreational" sex. The lifestyle has a basic principal that
there is no love, affection or emotional intimacy with the additional partner(s)
just fun and an enjoyment of additional sex to that found in the core
relationship.
There is nothing to prevent Poly's becoming swingers
- at the end of the day the fact that there is a multiple partner
realationship does not stop each or all of the partners also becoming involved
in swinging. At the same time there is nothing to stop swingers starting
to follow a lifestyle of Polyamory - it has been known that
threesomes have become something more akin to Polyamory.
The important thing is that the two lifestyles are totally at
odds to each other but can, in extreme circumstances, come together.
However, the basic principal of both lifestyles is the need for honesty and
openness.
If you are a Poly or involved in the Polyamory lifestyle but
want to also become involved in swinging, then feel free to check out the
adverts system. Unlike so many sites that insist upon a payment
before you can even view adverts, Connect4Fun are pleased to provide FREE basic
membership. You can Register
FREE, browse all adverts FREE, view photos FREE, advertise FREE, reply FREE,
meet in the FREE chat roooms. There is a premium membership
available,giving members still more features but Connect4Fun started
as and remains a FREE swingers adult contacts site.
